a life long friend of mine has recently got into a relationship with a girl. she's a nice girl, 7/10, cooks and can laugh at the odd rape joke or two. so fair to say that I don't have a problem with the girl personally. but what I do have a problem is how my friend has changed his life for her.
let me elaborate, he is very blue pill. but is a good lookin bloke who works out, is charismatic and earns a decent amount of money so he does well with women. before meeting her (on tinder I might add) he was in the process of enlisting in the military and has since put this, and the rest of his life on hold so that he can be with this girl. this isn't the first time he has done this either but I won't get into that.
other friends of mine who also frequent this forum have tried to introduce him to the red pill mindset but he more or less rejects the whole idea.
I know that i can't ever be that friend who is a yes man, and I need to show him the errors of his ways, but am stumped for ideas. I'm sure this has happened to, well most of you. how did you handle this?
let me elaborate, he is very blue pill. but is a good lookin bloke who works out, is charismatic and earns a decent amount of money so he does well with women. before meeting her (on tinder I might add) he was in the process of enlisting in the military and has since put this, and the rest of his life on hold so that he can be with this girl. this isn't the first time he has done this either but I won't get into that.
other friends of mine who also frequent this forum have tried to introduce him to the red pill mindset but he more or less rejects the whole idea.
I know that i can't ever be that friend who is a yes man, and I need to show him the errors of his ways, but am stumped for ideas. I'm sure this has happened to, well most of you. how did you handle this?