Quote: (07-01-2014 02:05 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
World Game (aka traditional masculine and feminine roles) is supposed to be different than Western game.
So have you been using Western game in a traditional society and getting punished for it?
Then stop using Western Style game, and start using traditional game. Which means in this case, you're setting her agenda and being the "man of the house" even if the two of you aren't man and wife, and there is no house.
The strength/weakness you might have is not being raised in a machismo culture.
Or more broadly, are there any niceties in your Western mentality that you can use w/o destroying her Global mindset?
WIA
It's funny because I've had success thanks to being "aggressive" but every girl keeps telling me that I am a player and not "serious" despite having all the good things going for me (coolness, good job)
I really don't know what to do with this girl, if I pursue her a lot I feel like putting her in a pedestal but if I don't then nothing happens and she vanishes so I'll try to keep a balance.
I also hate that a lot of girls don't like to go out on weekdays so just Friday/Saturday limits my options, considering that sometimes I'm tired.