Quote: (07-03-2014 09:53 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Applause for having the balls to approach, converse, and escalate.
Have yourself a glass of scotch or a name brand bottle of gatorade!
My break down
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1. she was attracted enough to banter with you
2. she might not have had enough
- attraction
- comfort
- or both
Solutions
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Tweaking your language like everyone says is probably the only thing you have to play here. Maybe a little more attraction and comfort, and a plausible way to get her # that doesn't bring sex possibilities to the forefront.
But in my mind these kind of limited interaction situations call for spot game, which is very direct, but compared to situations where yo have more time, low conversion rates. But 3% is better than 0.
Scenario
- Useful for elevators, bus stops, train stations, waiting in lines
- Requires props, specifically business cards
*banter*
*banter is drawing to a close*
"looks like i'm about to get off on my floor/my bus stop/my train station"
"I like talking to you, I get a sense about you"
"here's my card"
*letterpress, heavy white stock, simple design, I need a good one for my job*
*open your left hand*West Indian Archie
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*she puts her right hand in your left*
*place card in her hand with your right*
*the lightest of squeezes*
*end the conversation*....
*leave*
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A lot of guys are tempted to big bait a conversation with
"you work where?, oh I work at so and so..."
"I'm a *insert baller job*"
You don't want to lead with beta provider stats, or dangle a job at her. (although sometimes a chick will spread them legs if you're @ Goldman and she's smart enough to know what Bulge Bracket means)
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But even with polished business card gain, much like business, your returns will be few. Those chicks that take the proactive steps to call you...they're golden.
If you're doing this at a bar, and for whatever reason you can't isolate, instadate, or need to provide some kinda plausible deniability, make it a point to flip the card over, write out your #, and put something above your # that she'll remember (not your name though, that's on the front). But it's a little bit of a performance, giving you time to ping her with some more questions.
Sometimes these approaches float off into the ether. They only end up being valuable in that they charge you up, because you know you still got it.
But I think you did as well as could be expected, given the circumstances.
WIA
Magnificent reply. Thank you!