Quote: (07-02-2014 11:35 PM)The Father Wrote:
A little rusty on the game front. Maybe someone can suggest how i could have done better?
Today I was in a shoe repair store. Met a stunning young woman, late 20's or early 30s (I'm mid-40s, but fit and attractive). Did a lot of quick-witted banter about how I wanted the shoe repair guy to make my high-end italian shoes look like her simple flats. We had a lot of great back and forth for 2 minutes and I got lots of IOIs. The problem is, I didn't know how to number close in such a time-constrained situation: She or I was going to walk out of that store in two minutes. So I just opened up my phone and said "put your number in here". But it came off a little rushed as we hadn't yet built much rapport. She declined. Not sure what approach would have had better luck. None, maybe, given the time constraint.
I find this situation a lot, actually: I live in a large city and find a lot of quick interactions with hot young women. But they are often in passing - the subway, etc. Need some game for time-constrained interactions.
You should put this in the approach thread.
Answer this:
1) I think your intent wasn't on point or strong. Were you sending her a vibe of sex?
She needs to feel that testosterone, that your eyes show you want to fuck her hard and raw. This is critical.
2) Non-verbal body language wasn't on point (most likely), if you were to watch this from a stranger's perspective from far, would you say that you two looked like you guys are fucking rough? or that you too are just friends?
3) Did you touch her?
4) Witty banters are fun, but it's not what it's about, it's about her knowing that you want her sexually and that she's about to experience you, as much as you're experiencing her.
5) You're about to take her in an experience where she's not so sure about you, yet she can feel the growing tension between you two. This tension can be felt in a couple minutes (like two or three).
6) She needs to stop and listen to what you have to say, even if it's brief. A good way to stop her is if she's in a hurry say " I'm in a hurry but.."
7) Lastly, she might have a boyfriend and probably was flirting for validation (we'll never know since we're not there with you)
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