Quote: (06-28-2014 10:36 AM)slubu Wrote:
I'm a little hesitant in the "what are you doing in the hour" question however...it can be interpreted as you want to hang out with them in an hour.
I definitely considered this when coming up with that question, and decided if they think I'm trying to meet up, that's fine. Either A, they'll actually want to meet up on a whim like that (hasn't happened yet) or B, feel less pressure to just talk on the phone. Oh, I guess C, can happen too, and you don't hear from them within the hour.
I should note, I don't go to this strategy during the first day I'm exchanging texts with a new girl. I'll play the "text games" I referenced above usually for two or three days before switching to the phone. It's situational though, you've got to gauge her level of interest, and calling isn't going to help if there's none to start with.