[Galnuc69]

(06-19-2014 06:56 PM)Akula Wrote:  

Although this has some nuggets of good advice in there (define your goals, take the lead, say what you want, work together etc.) it's not exactly 1950 anymore and he completely ignores the massive elephant in the room that is Divorce Rape. And the fact that society beats up men constantly and tries to prevent them from doing these things 24-7 in America, particularly in the 'progressive' mainstream media. That and it basically tells all women that men are bad, not to be trusted, are screwing them over in the workplace and holding them back, etc.

The article is also written as if women who sleep around and ride the cock carousel throughout their lives will somehow transform into good, stable and faithful wives. Huh? Sure see how well works out.

(06-19-2014 06:20 PM)Galnuc69 Wrote:  

He is right, there is blame to go around for men and women, and we as men need to take the lead in relationships and in society at large. Women misbehave because we as men don't bring them into line. Feminism and all the social ills that evolved from it like single motherhood, divorce, abortion, the sexual revolution, are part a result of men stepping back and not only failing to lead, but failing to protect naturally irrational women from themselves.

Right now, in society at large, particularly among my generation, the millennials, but gen x as well, are abdicating our duty as assertive and dominant leaders. Being involuntary celibate for months on end just to hook up with a girl every once in a while or for that matter being a guy who sleeps with a new girl every couple of weeks won't make you happy, not in the long run. Nothing can substitute finding a wife and building a family. Without these things, a man is very empty.

There are a lot of reasons why men can't 'step up' and lead but suffice it to say that the political and cultural norms in the US are so skewed against men doing that (and for women trying to 'be their own boss') that what you say rarely is happening. Many women in American are entitled, narcissistic, obese drugged up sluts that are essentially not worth marrying. That's why so many guys are going abroad to find women who are feminine & genuinely want to be with a man (and aren't told 24-7 they don't need a man) and also want to have kids at a reasonable age and take care of the kids too. Oh and also aren't 20-30+ pounds overweight and unhealthy, or are Feminists, or taking anti-depressants, or want to raise their kids in 'gender neutral' households...etc. etc.

He never mentioned anything about sluts, or committing to sluts to try and change them.

Also, if you think all women ride the carousel, you hang around bars too much. I think our view of women here is jaded, between hanging out at bars and clubs, and debating online sluts, fat positive feminists, sex positive feminists, and plain attention whores. Yes, the quality of women has clearly taken a decline, but society as a whole, both sexes have declined in quality(men are overweight, drugged up, and sleeping around at a similar rate to women). But refusing to get married because you may get divorced(which would be far less likely if you are masculine and understand game) or on the chance she might be a slut(I heard the average before getting married is 4, so many of the women you meet will have only 1 or 2 sexual partners). That just sounds depressing.

Our society has become so large, so atomized, so multicultural and thus lacking social bonds between one another, combine this with feminism, and you get the distrust not only between the sexes, but between individuals in society as a whole.