Quote: (06-19-2014 12:34 PM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:
Because women often lose interest in you if you don't bang them on the first date. They begin to think of you as "obviously not Alpha" for not escalating to sex, and go bang someone else who will.
The same thing used to be happening with kiss on the first date 10 or 15 years ago - now it's about sex. It's an arms race.
eh, i think thats a projection based on personal experience.
i think pressing or being very obviously focused on fucking her is more of a sign of weakness than sitting back, doing your thing, going with the flow, reading her appropriately and exhibiting an abundance induced patience.
there are plenty enough ways to show you're a man about business without pushing hard for sex on a first date.
it happens plenty enough for me but i honestly DGAF if it does or doesn't. when you have four or five other women out of which one would show up with an hour of calling them for sex, it just doesn't matter. and sex with one of the regulars is usually better than sex with a new girl even if she is hotter. for me anyway.
i like drinks out for date 1. then drinks at my place date 2 and proceed with sex.