[lowside]

well the thing is you look good enough and behave well enough to get a kiss at the end of the date (like you said, you haven't been rejected) only to be either ignored or friendzoned afterwards.

this could mean two things (or a combo of both):
- too much nice-guy-game
- not enough sexual tension

could you give us an example of your typical date?
- convo's (exact words, yours/hers)
- locations, venues
- body language
etc.