Depends on your mother's faith. If she's not into church then grandma may be giving the money away to keep it out of her heathen hands in her mind.
I'd appeal to the church directly and explain the situation. An upstanding pastor will likely counsel her with something like Rutting elephant has said above. If Plan A doesn't work and she does end up giving it all away, join the church and appeal to them for charity. Your grandma will be/was their most recent big donor so you'll likely have some clout for generous help.
I'd appeal to the church directly and explain the situation. An upstanding pastor will likely counsel her with something like Rutting elephant has said above. If Plan A doesn't work and she does end up giving it all away, join the church and appeal to them for charity. Your grandma will be/was their most recent big donor so you'll likely have some clout for generous help.
Why do the heathen rage and the people imagine a vain thing? Psalm 2:1 KJV