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I don't like this new age inner game talk, either, but there is definitely a link between a healthy "don't give a shit except about a few important things" attitude to life in general and such an attitude when approaching women. If you get other people's opinion of you in perspective, and get used to asserting yourself confidently and cheerfully in other social situations, and overcome the fear of appearing eccentric or embarrassing yourself somehow, you'll probably find both that day to day life has fewer minor irritations and that you get on better with people. People look up to those who are relatively carefree, uncomplaining and comfortable in their own skin, and certainly women do.