[Ensam]

Don't plan it. Just be authentic in your interactions and women will pick up on it. They're very intuitive and will know if you're a 'marriage' guy or not. The ones who are dead set on getting married will likely self select out of your life before it even comes up. Women today seem to be hypersensitive to being told what to do. Leading by authority doesn't work quite like it used to but that's ok - it's usually a crappy leadership style anyway. Instead use their fantasies to steer the relationship in the direction you want. At the core of most women's fantasies is the idea of pleasing a man she respects. Be that man and let her know what pleases you - she'll likely be down with it. Don't be judgemental, just listen to them when they start talking about what they fantasize about. Girls are freaks. If they haven't done it - they've thought about it. When she talks about something you don't approve of just nod and don't pursue it. When she talks about something you're into then ask her more questions and go down that path. It's classic 'let her think she thought of it' game. You can get just about any relationship you want that way provided you are the kind of man she wants to please.