Quote: (06-04-2014 05:52 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:
San Francisco sucks especially if you don't have much natural game in you. The stories from inside and outside this forum are concrete.
Move to a different city or become location independent. If women are always on your mind this is very important to be happy.
Location and logisitics are a good 50%+ of success with women.
It seems like he has no game, would moving to another American city really make a substantial difference? I think not; reverse fundamental attribution error.
How will OP even know how to tell whether a woman is marriage material or not? Also he might burn through tons of women he brings stateside who eventually become turned off by him.
OP is what pickup coaches call a "hard-case newbie". These are the guys who can approach hundreds of women like OP said he did and have nothing to show for it because they're not normal guys, often times they will have problems with social anxiety, being on the autism spectrum or problems with social interaction in general. At the end of day I don't see any happy ending for OP unless he fixes his social/game issues, whether he chooses to be a player or settle down after he does that is up to him. Doing anything else is merely addressing his symptoms (loneliness, involuntary celibacy) and not his actual problem.