Best case scenario - they follow your lead and up their game as well
Worst case -they feel insecure, try to knock you down a peg, wonder aloud "who are YOU trying to impress"?
Look at it as you shit-tasting her, she is either forced to take action to due to all the new attention you will be getting
or
Face the very real threat of having you leave for greener pastures
Both options benefit you, because who no man wants to be a woman who is so comfortable in the relationship that she stops improving
Worst case -they feel insecure, try to knock you down a peg, wonder aloud "who are YOU trying to impress"?
Look at it as you shit-tasting her, she is either forced to take action to due to all the new attention you will be getting
or
Face the very real threat of having you leave for greener pastures
Both options benefit you, because who no man wants to be a woman who is so comfortable in the relationship that she stops improving
MDP