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I can't quite think of anyone to be my "homely sex freak" but it sounds spot on to me that that is the basis for this. How do you identify them? Most girls like that are quite shy and reserved on first impression am I right?
There is a minority of women, who knows how many, perhaps 3 to 8 percent who are markedly submissive sexually and personally.
The ideal version of this type of woman for emotional and sexual security had a hot body but a somewhat homely face, or is simply older but NOT bitter.
Their submissiveness is a double edged sword, what is good is they attach to you easily and enjoy feeling "owned" or controlled sexually by one man, and don't really actively seek more. Much different than a party girl. As you say they are shy. They can be a bit boring.
Although they are not exciting, having one of these as a lover is hugely important so you don't get tooled by hotter chicks who are always looking for someone better than you. ( I say "lover" because I find "FWB" an annoying term, it illustrates the bizarre idealization of being detached while I am looking to be ATTACHED. Yes, ATTACHMENT is HEALTHY and prevents the dreaded LONELINESS; but only if it's to a woman who values you as you do her.)
I unfortunately do NOT have recognizing them down to a science.
They are ideal for preventing sexual frustration.
One characteristic I noticed in the two women like this i've had in my life is they had soft, breathy voices- A little hard to describe but soft and subservient sounding as well as sensual. Melodious.
They both enjoyed being crudely ordered what to do sexually and either explicitly or implicitly OK'd me having other girls.
I believe I was stupid as a younger romantic-- I went after hotter chicks who weren't reliable at all and lost track of these extremely valuable girls.
I think for me the ideal situation would be to have one of these submissive chicks as a mainstay to help keep me emotionally stable and sexually content
then I can game one or two other hotter chicks with the inevitable rotation as they keep seeking super-alphas.
I don't really want to be chasing women all the time, two at a time is fine