In my experience, there are really no mindgames you can play on yourself to get over anxiety. There just has to come a point when you have to bite your teeth and simply do it. After that your mind finally gets used to the fact that nothing happens...most of the time, they'll be either friendly or neutral, and for those who are rude...well you don't have to see them again anyway. Just keep going at it until you finally manage to do it.
One thing that can be said is that being direct is without a doubt the best way to get rid of fear or nervousness. I generally prefer directness over indirect. I hate having to think up some bullshit to pull out of my ass as an excuse to talk to her, or to pretend I'm lost or some similar nonsense, or anything other than the fact that I'm into her.
One thing that can be said is that being direct is without a doubt the best way to get rid of fear or nervousness. I generally prefer directness over indirect. I hate having to think up some bullshit to pull out of my ass as an excuse to talk to her, or to pretend I'm lost or some similar nonsense, or anything other than the fact that I'm into her.