Single Mother's, especially one's with tatoo's are damaged psychologically. Especially when it comes to their relation to the Masculine.
If you do get involved with her, for God's sake don't get involved with the child. Don't even meet the child, ever! Unless it's like a couple weeks before you're getting married.
The reason is because this child will try to win you emotionally for their Mother, because the child knows on an inuitive level that their Mother is missing something. It's all fun and games, until the relationship is over and you are not around anymore.
Children think they are the center of the world and eveything that happens around them is a result of something they did. Now you are gone, they think they did something to drive you away. It creates a deep-seeded question within them.
When they become adult's they (unconciously) arrange there lives and relationships in such a way to get back to the question. "Will this person leave me?" So they do all sorts of things to test the other to see if they will leave/abandon them. When they finally get abandoned, they say to themselves, "Hah!, I knew they would eventually leave me!"
Hope this makes sense, and I hope all who read this and find themselves in a similar situation will care enough to put a child's psychological well-bieng over thier own immediate desires.
If you do get involved with her, for God's sake don't get involved with the child. Don't even meet the child, ever! Unless it's like a couple weeks before you're getting married.
The reason is because this child will try to win you emotionally for their Mother, because the child knows on an inuitive level that their Mother is missing something. It's all fun and games, until the relationship is over and you are not around anymore.
Children think they are the center of the world and eveything that happens around them is a result of something they did. Now you are gone, they think they did something to drive you away. It creates a deep-seeded question within them.
When they become adult's they (unconciously) arrange there lives and relationships in such a way to get back to the question. "Will this person leave me?" So they do all sorts of things to test the other to see if they will leave/abandon them. When they finally get abandoned, they say to themselves, "Hah!, I knew they would eventually leave me!"
Hope this makes sense, and I hope all who read this and find themselves in a similar situation will care enough to put a child's psychological well-bieng over thier own immediate desires.