I like this, and can totally see it working for a guy like myself.
I laughed when reading some comments above, suggesting that you should ask girls back to your house immediately after the lunch time coffee date. You serious guys? I would imagine this to have a 99% rejection rate, and then would probably lead to her cooling off afterwards. If anything that just seems like desperation on the guy's part.
I think it's much better to leave a little bit of down time, get the texting sexualized, and then invite her over.
The whole "nothing ventured nothing gained" philosophy doesn't apply if she thinks you're a sex-obsessed, overly-forward, sociopath.
I laughed when reading some comments above, suggesting that you should ask girls back to your house immediately after the lunch time coffee date. You serious guys? I would imagine this to have a 99% rejection rate, and then would probably lead to her cooling off afterwards. If anything that just seems like desperation on the guy's part.
I think it's much better to leave a little bit of down time, get the texting sexualized, and then invite her over.
The whole "nothing ventured nothing gained" philosophy doesn't apply if she thinks you're a sex-obsessed, overly-forward, sociopath.