Man, you really have to start with Bang. That books got the most concise advice out there, there's a ton of bullshit and mental masturbation on "game" websites/forums so I would honestly say just shy away from that shit for the time being. Start with buying bang, read that shit, and view this forum/ROK as a resource in the meantime, coming here OCCASIONALLY to view bits and pieces of advice when needed (i.e. experiencing LMR what to do, etc.), talking with some of the dudes on here, and then later contributing positively when/if you can, etc.
You also said work takes care of your physique, unless it's incredibly grueling to where you've got no energy to lift afterwards I'd still really say get on a workout program and strict diet. It will do wonders for you and your mental state. It sounds like you really aren't enjoying life right now, why would any chick want to be a part of that shit man? You've gotta get that in shit order first and get yourself out there, talk to chicks, this shit is more about improving your overall life (see: career/$$, friendships, mental & physical health) not just fucking these sluts. You've really gotta enjoy life and living dawg, start there trust me.
http://stronglifts.com/
http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/find-a-plan.html
You also said work takes care of your physique, unless it's incredibly grueling to where you've got no energy to lift afterwards I'd still really say get on a workout program and strict diet. It will do wonders for you and your mental state. It sounds like you really aren't enjoying life right now, why would any chick want to be a part of that shit man? You've gotta get that in shit order first and get yourself out there, talk to chicks, this shit is more about improving your overall life (see: career/$$, friendships, mental & physical health) not just fucking these sluts. You've really gotta enjoy life and living dawg, start there trust me.
http://stronglifts.com/
http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/find-a-plan.html