She's lying about him waving it around. The police have stated that the charges aren't from him using the weapon in a menacing manner. He is charged for merely possessing the weapon. Keep in mind they are about to go through a divorce. She is building her case of him creating a "hostile environment" to extract more resources from him/ruin his life. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
10/14/15: The day I learned that convicted terrorists are treated with more human dignity than veterans.