Ensam, I think that aloofness is what I could be looking for but how to learn my own value?
Knowing that the girl might not have anything unique to offer might not help if it's the general "nice, beautiful girl" I'm looking for anyway. If I don't know my own value that night not any "nice, beautiful girl" will take the bait, so going "next" probably won't help.
Knowing that the girl might not have anything unique to offer might not help if it's the general "nice, beautiful girl" I'm looking for anyway. If I don't know my own value that night not any "nice, beautiful girl" will take the bait, so going "next" probably won't help.