[Smooth Operator]

(02-07-2014 11:13 AM)SwayMe Wrote:  

(02-07-2014 06:54 AM)Smooth Operator Wrote:  

I'm not contradicting myself, read again.
Not enough attraction -> attraction will flee
Solid attraction, i.e. she's really into you -> attraction will not flee easily

We're not on the same page but on a similar one.
The question is what does easily mean in this context?

Depends on the girl and context. Some examples from my life:
- I texted a cute girl with an amazing ass I met 1 month earlier in a bar (I didn't even kiss her) and she still remembered me and was very happy with my text, banged her 2 weeks later
- An ex-girlfriend texting me 2 years after we broke up (I was not betaised) and a couple of months before her wedding, she was still thinking about me and I'm sure that I can still bang her
- A nice girl from another city texting me every now and then for more than 6 months to keep me warm before she would return to my city
- Etc.

(02-07-2014 11:13 AM)SwayMe Wrote:  

Looking at it differently when having a natural convo where you create attraction (let me just describe it with the word "create") you have an exchange of "info" sooner or later. This exchange of "info" has elements of qualification and comfort.

Depending on the situation it can actually still go away quickly.

Chances that attraction flees away quickly increases when (according to me): she was not totally into you, there was no kissing, the interaction was too short due to circumstances (e.g. only 10 minutes), her ex-boyfriend comes back into her life (happened with me a couple of times), the interaction was just about dancing/kissing (no real connection), etc.

(02-07-2014 11:13 AM)SwayMe Wrote:  

Let's not consider a snl and a situation where you have to get into touch with her again. With good HBs a little bit of persistence is good but ask yourself when you're replaced by the next guy that also creates solid attraction.

Thought: Guys and sex is freely available 24/7 and you're just the next one. If I see pussy everyday and can also have it it's not special anymore. To keep me interested the attraction level has to be suuuuper high.

That's another myth imo. There is a clear lack of real/high value men, so they don't meet that easily another real/high value man (I'm not talking about golddiggers who don't mind being with a beta as long as he is rich). Yes women can have sex with several guys a day, but only when lowering their standards…With standards, it becomes more difficult.