[Smooth Operator]

(02-06-2014 01:00 AM)daddysanchez Wrote:  

Historically, being a nice guy, which is what I am naturally, has always benefited me. That and a mix of aloof-indifferent. Asshole game has proved counter-productive for me. blkgatsby has told me that asshole game won't work for me because it only works when it's ironic.

Good looking guys need above average game for congruency reasons, otherwise they are creepy as the girl (I'm not talking about sub 7's) will think "how come such a handsome guy did X and said Y, he has a lack of knowledge about women, there must be something wrong that I don't see, I'm out".

You don't need asshole game. Be a real man: non-needy, confident, dominant. This real man may be an asshole according to women, as they don't follow their agenda, but it is not the same definition of asshole that men give to it.

(02-06-2014 01:00 AM)daddysanchez Wrote:  

What has worked for other handsome guys?

Direct? Indirect? Asshole? Nice guy? Work fast? Or take it slow?

My most successful strategies have been more direct than indirect and just playing things cool at initial interactions. I like it that way. Simple, to the point. Getting numbers are easy but at a certain point it feels like homework dealing with 20 flaky girls at once. I like McQueen's post on forgetting about #s altogether and I'm thinking of employing that strategy. But I game mostly during the day on a college campus so how would i go about getting ONS's in that setting? I know it's possible.

Be indirect with your words, direct with your actions (escalation).