I think a good way to do this is by actually gaming girls and showing people you are that type of guy. Also take advantage of the friend of a friend situation. By that I mean if you want to get to someone who you think would be good for your social circle or has a good social circle, then get with someone they know that might be easier for you to get in with then use them to get to the person.
The rewards I see from working is what made me an addict.
There's way more people that want it than people that have it.