Quote: (01-16-2014 06:28 AM)augen sehen Wrote:
I rewarded her with my thoughtful behavior by having her see the ice skates I had bought for her but never told her about, all that was after she came to my place so it was kind of a bonus for her and not a desperate move for attention. She was surprised that I used her friend to find out her shoe size.
It seems like she blew up and you offered more commitment when you got her to talk to you more. You're conceding your frame not just because you offered more commitment, but because you offered multiple rewards for her poor behaviour (her talking to you and still being into you, maybe somewhat apologizing for her actions is not worthy of the multiple rewards you gave her). Yes, she may still be enamored with you now, but if you continue to do this the tingles will diminish and she'll dry right up.
I really think the appropriate play here would've been to comfort her and let her know that you have strong feelings for her and that you had considered making her your gf (exclusive) but that this recent behaviour makes you hesitant. Then escalate/game as usual with the eye towards comfort for the near future.
That said, enjoy it if it makes you happy, but keep a VERY keen eye towards managing the relationship.
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