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(01-15-2014 04:58 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(01-14-2014 11:33 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

I have been reading Giovanny's posts as part of my reading. I should refer to his posts more often i suppose if im going to learn.

I have answered all of your questions in the last few years.

It would be nearly impossible for you to find the answers since I have nearly 5000 posts.

I will try to help you..

(01-14-2014 07:01 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

living 20 min off-campus apt with small social circle.

First thing,

Try to live closer to campus.

The closer you are to campus, the more social oppurtunities and logistical advantages you will have.

(01-14-2014 07:01 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

1. I often see girls on iphones, earphones in, or on a computer, or reading a book. i really dont know how to open this. any ideas?

If she have earphones in, refer to this post:

"Overcoming Earphones"

If she is reading a book, ask her about the book.

If she is on a computer, ask her about the computer or the website she is looking at..

Learn to say -- "excuse me, can I ask you something?"

Or, "hey is that a Iphone5?"

Or, "hey, how is the your wifi connextion in here?"

Stuff like that.

Comment on whatever she is looking at or holding in her hands.

(01-14-2014 07:01 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

im focusing on girls who are alone. has approaching pairs yield any good results for yall?

I mostly focus on girls who are by themselves but occasionally I will open a pair. Usually, using the exact same comments/questions that I would if they were by themselves..

(01-14-2014 07:01 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

There are an astronomical number of girls just walking around, from dorm, to class, to meeting someone. I only had one idea which to approach a girl who is walking which is " where did you get that bag?

I have banged a few girls by asking them about their bag.

I have also banged girls by commenting on their pants, shoes, hair, etc, etc.

Refer to this post for specific examples:

"Situational Openers"

(01-14-2014 07:01 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

how can you break into social circles on campus?

Focus on your own personal strenghs, interests, and passions. Get involved in those things.

Like sports? Play intramurals or join a club team.

Like music? Join a band or music club.

Like to party? Go to parties and go crazy.

Like Acting? Join the theatre department.

Find the people who share your interests.

(01-14-2014 11:33 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

I dont really have a problem opening girls who are busy with iphone, comp, earplugs etc. but the main issue im having is that i have nothing to work with really.

I already answered this above ^

Comment on whatever she is looking at, holding in her hands, or wearing on her body..

Keep it simple.

Tons of examples here:

"The Approach Thread"

"Open This Chick"

(01-14-2014 11:33 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

I opened one girl who was watching a show. I asked her what show she was watching on her laptop.

Perfect!

(01-14-2014 11:33 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

example: people are walk to their next class. instead of stopping them, i could simply go to the places where people wait until they can enter the classroom.

Yes, if the situation is not advantagous for an approach. Wait, follow her until she gets into a more approachable environment.

I follow girls all the time.

(01-14-2014 11:33 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

Still learning to stop a girl would be a massively important tool because the opportunity is so abundant.

You don't always have to stop them. You can just walk ALONGSIDE them and open them as you are walking in the same direction.

This is often easier than stopping them.

If you want her to stop, just say -- "excuse me" and have your question/comment ready.

(01-14-2014 11:33 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

do you think this is a sign of disinterest or are they simply not very comfortable around me?

I think that you just met these girls, they don't know you, so, they didn't they are not ready to invite you back to their dorm room.

Just get friendly with them, build the freindship and maybe they will invite you next time. Or, if you guys become friends, you can invite them to do something sometime..

Be patient. You will see these girls over and over again..

With many of them, you can use a more long term type of game.

Let them observe you over a course of time, give them a chance to get to know you.

Read this one:

"A Softer Approach Strategy"

(01-14-2014 11:33 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

does anyone have experience with frats?

I was never in a frat but my friends who were in popular frats got tons of easy p*ssy.

Frats are good for girls if its a polular frat who parties with the soroities.

Assuming your school has an active "greek life"..

(01-15-2014 01:07 PM)Frank Wrote:  

I feel weird about approaching in a small area where lots of people are.

(01-14-2014 11:33 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

make the interaction natural

Yes!

That is the whole key to all of this!!!

The approach must FEEL NATURAL! For her, especielly.

It might feel weird to you because you are inexperienced but if you follow my advice and practice a few hundred times, you will feel confident in doing it and she will not get any "weird vibes" from you.

Be simple. Be natural.

(01-14-2014 11:33 PM)mickeyd Wrote:  

Has anyone tried introducing a prop?

I always use props.

I carry a laptop bag on campus.

I carry shopping bags at the mall.

Anything she is holding or looking at is a prop.

The weather can be a prop.

Many guys use cigarettes and lighters as props.

The whole world is your prop if you care to make a comment about something you see.

Finally, read this post/thread:

This might be the best advice I can give you:

"Choke Points On Campus"

P.S. Have fun and remember that the goal is not to get a number or a date or even sex. The goal is to remove all fear that you have in regards to talking to strange women in public. When all that fear is removed, numbers, dates, and bangs becomes easy.

Good lord. This is some vital info for college students. Good info for just walking around downtown.