Quote: (06-01-2011 01:19 PM)Htownanddown Wrote:
I usually have a girl who plays the "girlfriend" role. Honestly I like having someone to go to nice restaurants or museum exhibits with. I guess this is essentially beta provider game. Most of the time I have 2 to 3 regular girls on the side, then 2 to 3 prospects playing the whole text game. The "girlfriend" role is actually the easiest to fill, its keeping girls happy when you only see them once every other week thats hard. I've been doing this for about 2 years and the logistics can be insane to the point of not being worth it. It helps though that I split my time between two fairly large cities.
I find the roles almost have a built in shelf life, with my "girlfriend" role I treat her like a girlfriend except that I just refuse to discuss monogamy. If she brings it up I change the subject, I get pissed off etc. I can usually get away with this for a couple months and then she'll get frustrated. With all other girls I play the general alpha game, only meet for drinks cancel plans a lot etc.
There are certain challenges for sure though. I just had my birthday and of course my top girl wants to go as do three other girls Ive been banging on the side. I end up inviting none of them and actually banging a 9 that is a good friend of mine at my party. Now Im dealing with the fallout. Im actually having dinner with my top girl tonight to smooth things out, I guess we will see how it goes.
I have some pretty hard rules for my top girl though
1. I never travel with them
2. I tell them I don't have a FB
3. I don't let them stay at my place two nights in a row
4. I don't hang out with them more than 3 times a week
This is pretty much my mantra. I've managed to keep it going for nearly 5 months now with one "girlfriend."
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