Quote: (06-02-2011 01:08 AM)houston Wrote:
I know there's guys on here that are naturally shy and quiet. How did y'all get past that and make yourself approach every girl you want to?
With practice. It is like skydiving - no matter how many books and forums you read, you'll be scared and adrenaline-pumping your first 10-20 jumps. Then - quite suddenly - you find out that you aren't scared anymore, that emotional-wise jumping from the airplane is no more different for you than driving to the grocery store, and you are bored on your way up.
Same with approach - at some point after the practice you'll reach the state when your mouth works independently from your brain, and you're doing the approach automatically, while thinking about something completely different.