[TheEndTheBeginning]

"Actually, you don't want to be talking. "

Please explain this more while your with her . Its funny you mention it, i tend to kiss girls on the cheek and it seems to ease the tension and do a few of the other things you mentioned when the girl does show some interest. I do feel ya on the radar part at times when im feeling in state or feeling pretty good, the girls seem to have that radar for that brief time...its just having things last with them is tough part.

I think i realized that some of these girls just aren't that into me as much as i think they are or that they like the attention and then just want more.

(01-10-2014 05:59 AM)lowbudgetballer Wrote:  

Actually, you don't want to be talking. Two common examples. The girl hits the line. When women approach you, they tend to stand a certain marked distance from you, standing, dancing, or looking at you. Usually they hold a certain smile on their face which says proceed. You move in and touch arms or hips and dance. Try to slip one on her cheek, neck, or lips to start.

Second, girls can just radar you, locking eyes with you like a missile and come right up to you. Sometimes they can back in or do other things, but these are not always as serious.

Bear in mind, thee are just my individual experiences. Outside of approach (many times preceded by an indirect invitation such as above), i don't even have any real game.

lowbudgetballer

(01-10-2014 05:49 AM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

But how does one make it natural? I can go for it, but i don't know how to have it progress naturally that way if they don't show active interest. They seem to get bored easily. They don't want to move around, they don't put in much in the conversation, they get distracted easy, etc. I think my problem is i go for the makeout too soon OR when i try to have things lead to it, they just get bored.