[Screwston]

I know there's guys on here that are naturally shy and quiet. How did y'all get past that and make yourself approach every girl you want to? I've grown a lot in the past few years but sometimes I still get that feeling in my stomach when I see a bad bitch and won't go up to her. I still can't bring myself to talk to groups unless I'm drunk but that's a whole different thread. I tell myself "its just pussy" and the worst any girl can say is no but I still haven't reached that point where I can go up to any lizard. Is there a secret or do I just need to let my nuts hang and get out in the field?