I lost my virginity to a girl I was orbiting. I was sickeningly beta, I did every wrong thing in the book many times over. But after a few months of knowing her and orbiting we eventually started hooking up. Of course this wasn't meant to be, since she never wanted to commit and ended up dumping me for another dude....Without telling me. Yeah, that's how little she respected me.
If you're a beta orbiter and you're asking if it can happen to you then yes, it can. But if it does happen, don't think you're some kind of Casanova. Getting laid by being the ultimate beta fucked me up for years since I thought all it took to get in a girl's pants was to be charming and do everything she told me to do and call/text/IM her 10 times a day, etc. It's something I'm still working to change about myself 10 years down the line.
If you're a beta orbiter and you're asking if it can happen to you then yes, it can. But if it does happen, don't think you're some kind of Casanova. Getting laid by being the ultimate beta fucked me up for years since I thought all it took to get in a girl's pants was to be charming and do everything she told me to do and call/text/IM her 10 times a day, etc. It's something I'm still working to change about myself 10 years down the line.