After reading other posts, I can see and visualize both sides of the coin...maybe the Libra in me.
Many cats are pro-upgrading their pieces, hopefully this is your bottom (main) chick, while others say to hell with that logic why not upgrade yourself in all the vital aspects of life and force her to up her game through example.
While upgrading your chick materially (wardrobe etc) may bring temporary benefits to the player, if the chick doesn't come with a built in sense of style then this can still be a pain in the ass. I'm reminded of the show that used to run on one of the many cable channels where there is a 30 something, career woman who for convenience, walks around everyday in the most atricous gear. Embarrassing to not only family and friends, but her poor beta husband is afraid to "advise" her on her fashion missteps. Once the "fashion experts" come in to '"fix" her, she displays a TON of resistance only to finally give in. At the conclusion of the show she is paraded out in front of her peers all dolled up, to a choir of cheers and applause. It's at this point that I wonder if the camera's caught up with the reformed fashionista 6 months down the line, if she hasn't reverted back to her sloppy ways.
I tend to want to upgrade with game that differentiates me from the average trick in her mind. Of course, I've "invested" in a LTR, but best believe I'm looking for her to invest in me & herself as well.
That being said, if I bring someone into my inner sanctum I would want them to leave in a better position then when I found them. Not materially necessarily but in 'life game'. Teach a wo(man) to fish...
Many cats are pro-upgrading their pieces, hopefully this is your bottom (main) chick, while others say to hell with that logic why not upgrade yourself in all the vital aspects of life and force her to up her game through example.
While upgrading your chick materially (wardrobe etc) may bring temporary benefits to the player, if the chick doesn't come with a built in sense of style then this can still be a pain in the ass. I'm reminded of the show that used to run on one of the many cable channels where there is a 30 something, career woman who for convenience, walks around everyday in the most atricous gear. Embarrassing to not only family and friends, but her poor beta husband is afraid to "advise" her on her fashion missteps. Once the "fashion experts" come in to '"fix" her, she displays a TON of resistance only to finally give in. At the conclusion of the show she is paraded out in front of her peers all dolled up, to a choir of cheers and applause. It's at this point that I wonder if the camera's caught up with the reformed fashionista 6 months down the line, if she hasn't reverted back to her sloppy ways.
I tend to want to upgrade with game that differentiates me from the average trick in her mind. Of course, I've "invested" in a LTR, but best believe I'm looking for her to invest in me & herself as well.
That being said, if I bring someone into my inner sanctum I would want them to leave in a better position then when I found them. Not materially necessarily but in 'life game'. Teach a wo(man) to fish...
MDP