Quote: (12-26-2013 06:03 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:
Quote: (12-23-2013 08:58 PM)murrb Wrote:
Her: I have to warn you I'm having a rough day.
While WIA gave some good advice for women in general (especially if you've truly lost that much frame), I think in this situation in particular, she's asking for you to show her that you do care for her (obviously you do at some level) and she's asking for some comfort. I'd go with a simple:
"That's cool, we've all had them. Come over and I'll help you relax and smile again."
Then before she comes over you make sure to have a nice bottle of wine handy, some chill music, and something light/refreshing to snack on. This all costs you very little. Then you have her come in, take her shoes off, put her purse down, tell her you want her to sit and relax and tell you about her rough day so she can get it out and then forget about it Then you help her wind down with a mini massage or just talking while you pour a couple glasses of wine, bring out the snack, and just let her get shit out, but don't let the topic linger too long on her day.
Have her get it out, then change the subject and get it on something you both enjoy or something you can both laugh about. Once you've got her laughing and smiling again tell her, "Don't you feel better now?" and make sure she agrees with you, then move on to some more chilling if you think she needs it, or if she's ready start warming her up and escalate towards some hot sex. She should be a demure kitten again by the time the night is over and you can explain to her gently that your words weren't right, but you just need her to chill out a bit more so you can enjoy your time together better.
That is, if you like having her around. If she's a worthy girl, just helping her relax like this and then giving her the good dick will have her fall right back into a happy spot.
She came over late around 10 and I was already in bed. She came right into my place took her jacket off and cuddled in bed with me. 5 minutes later we were having sex and it felt good.
I think when I finger her she pissed the bed a little though. haha