Quote: (12-18-2013 05:52 PM)NascarPhD Wrote:
Edit: Honestly for someone completely new who reads the boards, there is the impression that everyone here is hooking up with a different girl every night, or is getting any girl they want. Even the responses questioning my authenticity have helped me a lot, so thanks all.
good lord no. One new notch a week is doing good(I think). The key, or at least one of the keys, for me at least, was realizing that if things don't work out- I get blown out on an approach, get the number and set up a date with a girl and then she flakes, or decides that we just aren't a good match or whatever, I understand just how abundant women are so it doesn't even phase me in the least.
Think about it, if you are averaging one new notch a week, you would be getting 52 notches a year, and over 4 years, that would be over 200 notches.
You will get better at identifying which women are into you, sure, and that will help max out your results, but really, even when a babe seems to genuinely like me from the start, there is a decent chance she will just flake out and stop responding. I just don't give any emotional reaction.