Quote: (12-18-2013 04:19 AM)BadgerHut Wrote:
Quote: (12-17-2013 10:05 AM)frenchie Wrote:
So if you guys are aware, I have just gotten out of a LTR. I used to game girls during the day, but I never kept the numbers and would release them back into the wild.
Well, catching fish is easy. Keeping the fish is a different bet.
There is a temp at my office that works reception (she'll be gone by the 31st of December). She's a solid 7 and we hit it off well. I ended up getting her number and kept the text game to a min . Since i'm staying in town for Christmas, I visited her today and flirted as usual. I said, "I've never been ice skating before." and she of course flipped. I asked, and of course got a yes. However, she gave me the warning of, "I'm kinda seeing someone."
I looked back and chuckled a bit. I said back said, "Oh, that's going to make our affair that much more clandestine."
I've read a lot of posts about this and for some reason it has me nervous. I'm probably over thinking it a bit, but the signs are all there that she's into me so i'm going to push for it.
Any other pitfalls I should be aware of?
It's either a pre-emptive rejection (a sort of friendzoning), a shit test or just a plausible-deniability routine run by her subconscious to salve whatever mixed feelings she may have. "Kinda seeing someone" has null factual value, so I would take actions over words. 50-50 chance you are boning her before she says it again. She's probably shit-testing you and giving herself an out where if she decides she doesn't like you she can eject politely with an excuse.
Interesting, we're hanging out on friday. I will report back then.