st Lays I'm soft, with ex-gf I'm ROCK HARD. Is this mental??
12-09-2013, 04:45 AM
Read the book "Sexual Intelligence" by Marty Klein it'll change your whole outlook on sex...
Sex happens before you even reach the bedroom, it's a mental thing, total expression/freedom. I don't want to sound all "woo woo" but when you stop thinking of THE ACT as sex then you open yourself to an INSANE SEX DRIVE. It's funny because I was turned on by the dynamics and interaction of it all that I legit turned into a sex addict...
- Fucking on roofs
- Almost jumping in a hole in the street at a construction site
- Fingering in the club
- Sex raw, on period (ate her ass)
At any moment, if I went soft it was whatever because I still have hands and mouth, she also has areas that probably have been neglected in most of her sex life. Fast foward to now, I'm SHOCKED at how I am sexually. (choking, spanking, noises, etc) Like, I don't even get HARD other than when it's "time for intercourse". Why? It's not TIME yet and so what if she's touching the whole in my jeans pressing on my dick. It isn't TIME TO GET HARD. Yes, i have a dick, its soft right now because it isn't TIME.
Then we actually fuck, and fuck more, and fuck more...See thing is you can't stop because your mind is indulging in the whole experience. One girl I used to bang who used to get off by her MEN getting off. WITH ME, she used to get off by the fact that I simply couldn't stop fucking her. We'd have 1 session, 2mins later I'm ready again...By round 5 she'd be like WTF!?!?! Two weeks later, she adapted and became the one who constantly wanted to go another round hahahaha.
In a nutshell the book talks about changing your outlook on sex, really was an eye opener since everyone aspires to have NORMAL SEX, what is "normal" sex? That could be answered with all the common doubts, worries, fears of sex.
Sex happens before you even reach the bedroom, it's a mental thing, total expression/freedom. I don't want to sound all "woo woo" but when you stop thinking of THE ACT as sex then you open yourself to an INSANE SEX DRIVE. It's funny because I was turned on by the dynamics and interaction of it all that I legit turned into a sex addict...
- Fucking on roofs
- Almost jumping in a hole in the street at a construction site
- Fingering in the club
- Sex raw, on period (ate her ass)
At any moment, if I went soft it was whatever because I still have hands and mouth, she also has areas that probably have been neglected in most of her sex life. Fast foward to now, I'm SHOCKED at how I am sexually. (choking, spanking, noises, etc) Like, I don't even get HARD other than when it's "time for intercourse". Why? It's not TIME yet and so what if she's touching the whole in my jeans pressing on my dick. It isn't TIME TO GET HARD. Yes, i have a dick, its soft right now because it isn't TIME.
Then we actually fuck, and fuck more, and fuck more...See thing is you can't stop because your mind is indulging in the whole experience. One girl I used to bang who used to get off by her MEN getting off. WITH ME, she used to get off by the fact that I simply couldn't stop fucking her. We'd have 1 session, 2mins later I'm ready again...By round 5 she'd be like WTF!?!?! Two weeks later, she adapted and became the one who constantly wanted to go another round hahahaha.
In a nutshell the book talks about changing your outlook on sex, really was an eye opener since everyone aspires to have NORMAL SEX, what is "normal" sex? That could be answered with all the common doubts, worries, fears of sex.