Too many guys seem to think getting a number is a "close", so they tailor their approaches in such a way to promote getting the number versus going for the lay.
They may not even realize they are doing this, but in essence they don't go for it, instead playing it safe and bouncing with the digits. Thing is when they go with this mentality, they don't get enough tingles going in the broad leading to a flake when they get the nerve to contact them. Oftentimes the broad won't even know who they are.
Saying that, I think that is why a lot of guys are against getting numbers when giving advice in an attempt to get guys out of this rut.
I know that's why I say I'm against numbers.
If and when I do take a number it's well into an interaction that simply cannot go farther at that point.
The number is not the goal by any means.
They may not even realize they are doing this, but in essence they don't go for it, instead playing it safe and bouncing with the digits. Thing is when they go with this mentality, they don't get enough tingles going in the broad leading to a flake when they get the nerve to contact them. Oftentimes the broad won't even know who they are.
Saying that, I think that is why a lot of guys are against getting numbers when giving advice in an attempt to get guys out of this rut.
I know that's why I say I'm against numbers.
If and when I do take a number it's well into an interaction that simply cannot go farther at that point.
The number is not the goal by any means.