Yea I mean I think most of the guys would agree here that pushing for the bang is always the way to go. I just don't know how not to if that makes sense. I mean cute girl in my house, then my bed it's like a switch goes off and tells me to go for the kill.
After reading more feedback I think I have a solid plan which I already mentioned. I'd prefer to not go out since she's already been over, but I'll see. I want to have her over to do something fun like shoot pool. Maybe have a bottle of wine on deck or some beer. Play around for a bit tease her, manhandle her (when the situation calls for it) and just keep a fun vibe. This will keep her shields down. Then I'll suggest we go upstairs and we can listen to hip-hop (which we both love apparently) and show her pics and souvenirs from my trip recent. The whole time I'm doing this I plan on teasing her, kissing her here and there grabbing her ass etc.
I think one of my issues is once I see an opportunity to score I just get tunnel vision. There's no playful teasing or escalation it's just straight to business which is a big no-no.
Anyway I'm looking way too much into this, I'll post back later in a few days.
After reading more feedback I think I have a solid plan which I already mentioned. I'd prefer to not go out since she's already been over, but I'll see. I want to have her over to do something fun like shoot pool. Maybe have a bottle of wine on deck or some beer. Play around for a bit tease her, manhandle her (when the situation calls for it) and just keep a fun vibe. This will keep her shields down. Then I'll suggest we go upstairs and we can listen to hip-hop (which we both love apparently) and show her pics and souvenirs from my trip recent. The whole time I'm doing this I plan on teasing her, kissing her here and there grabbing her ass etc.
I think one of my issues is once I see an opportunity to score I just get tunnel vision. There's no playful teasing or escalation it's just straight to business which is a big no-no.
Anyway I'm looking way too much into this, I'll post back later in a few days.