I think instilling dread is the best option here. I had a g/f in college whose best friend had a similar influence. I wasn't prepared at that time to know what to do.
Her friend would get into seriously relationships with guys for about two months, instantly drop them, then start another "serious relationship." Then one day she decided they had to all move to California. Which they did. Never physically saw any of that crowd of female friends again.
The only way I think I could have countered this influence is by saying "fuck you" to the lot of them first by insisting we date other people before she did. And that might not have even worked.
My ex g/f, by the way, still lives in California, where she and this friend went to do their "eat pray love" thing. The friend came back and settled into a Nice Jewish Girl marriage with a Beta provider who probably has no idea of her past.
These girls, by the way, don't pick anyone they really love or care about when it comes time for marriage. They simply pick whoever is around when the bell rings in their heads telling them it's time to start a family. It's all a game of musical chairs and the "winner" in the marriage contest is the guy who happens to be the closest chair when the music (i.e. carousel) stops.
Her friend would get into seriously relationships with guys for about two months, instantly drop them, then start another "serious relationship." Then one day she decided they had to all move to California. Which they did. Never physically saw any of that crowd of female friends again.
The only way I think I could have countered this influence is by saying "fuck you" to the lot of them first by insisting we date other people before she did. And that might not have even worked.
My ex g/f, by the way, still lives in California, where she and this friend went to do their "eat pray love" thing. The friend came back and settled into a Nice Jewish Girl marriage with a Beta provider who probably has no idea of her past.
These girls, by the way, don't pick anyone they really love or care about when it comes time for marriage. They simply pick whoever is around when the bell rings in their heads telling them it's time to start a family. It's all a game of musical chairs and the "winner" in the marriage contest is the guy who happens to be the closest chair when the music (i.e. carousel) stops.