Quote: (11-11-2013 08:07 AM)murrb Wrote:
I did. After she started showing resistance I said things like "Woah slow down"
She would say "We are not having sex"
I would say "I know I'm not having sex with you. I don't want to"
If she said that you are not having sex, she is thinking about it. It is a projection.
Flip the coin on her: "you are too fast, I am not always like this, I am not having sex toninght with you". Hamster overload. Sometimes they even jump from the couch, surprised, thinking they are doing it wrong. Then you can just invite them to sit up and relax. Then, escalate again.
Of course, not all women are up to sex so fast. Sometimes 3 or even 4 dates may be necesary.
Only quality girls are worth more than 3 dates though. If she is a 5-6, and I can't get sex on 2nd date, I never call them back. The time and money invested would be better spent on you or into another women. They nexted me and I try to learn from the experience.
Then again, you must take into account that some women just want to hang out, seek validation, are serial daters, etc. If she isn't into you in a sexual way, then accept it and move on, since no game or logistics will make her bang you.
A a man, you always want sex, but women want many things other than that. As you begin to learn, it may happen to you in well over 50% of your dates.