Quote: (11-10-2013 05:56 AM)Engineering Bandicoot Wrote:
Excellent post 2Wycked, honestly I don't know how people are able to learn how to write so well, as you and the other great writers on Roosh do. Seems like a very hard skill to master.
I've been trying to fix my "inner game", and it is tough. I can't ask anyone for help around me, I can't trust anyone around me in real life with the questions I want to ask. I get this subconscious feeling that there are difficult things I'll have to confront about myself, and I've been avoiding facing it. The human brain is amazing, I know there's something wrong, and I want to fix it consciously, but my brain constantly tries to distract myself from working on the subject. I promised myself I would fix my self esteem before practicing any game. Pair this with untreated adult ADHD, and you have yourself a hell of a problem to fix.
I'm trying, I really am, but this is very hard. I appreciate threads like this, every little bit of information helps, thanks.
I suggest you get yourself a mentor. There are plenty of them out there, and they are more than willing to help anyone that asks. This could be your boss, someone you know that is successful, perhaps someone online, basically anyone that you think you'd like to be in their position sometime in a few years. Forming a mentor-mentee relationship is invaluable, because it gives you a free pass to literally ask any question you want, and lo and behold they will part with their wisdom, if all you do is just ask.
On topic, great post man. I've been into self-development for about 2 years now and I think you really hit the nail on the head with this one. I'd like to know more about what specific things you do in your daily life to improve self-esteem and strive for a purpose (E.g. what are some things you do everyday that you cant go without, for example I meditate every single day, and I cant go to sleep knowing I haven't meditated)