Quote: (11-08-2013 01:52 PM)mbare Wrote:
I'm not surprised you're still not getting it/the point everyone is trying to make. To answer your question, no one on this forum would have played it like you did. Again, no one and that's the bottom line. Whether gaming a girl for a quick fuck or a relationship, you did everything wrong. You tried to hook up with her, then be her friend, then therapist, then bitch boy, etc, etc.
very eloquent and helpful mate. I'm listening because you absolutely nailed the order.
what would you have suggested i do? she initiated the make out and next day apologized. I laughed it off. The other guy was getting extremely close to her under the guise of being a friend and i was running out of time cause i knew i wouldn't be able to get her alone much...so i dropped it saying i liked her. Agreed,perhaps wrong move but how else would i have bought time? unless you're saying i should've just let it flow and banged her when i had the chance
Quote: (11-08-2013 01:52 PM)mbare Wrote:
As soon as I get the hint that a chick has issues like that, I'm gone and never look back. You don't have to lose a human aspect and NOT feel bad for some if something REALLY did happen to them. Unless it's a true friend, wife, or family member, then you do not need to concern yourself in their problems that much. Especially in this particular case.
Of course not, I am generally a very apathetic guy...don't give a fk.
she is a lovely person though.
Quote: (11-08-2013 01:52 PM)mbare Wrote:
Most of us have experienced crazy drama girls like this before. And before you defend her..trust me, she's fucked up. She was probably fucked up before the "rape" and always will be fucked up. I dated a girl with depression in college, and banged a girl with an eating disorder for about 3 months. In my work I've seen girls with the diagnosis of post traumatic stress disorder from "rape." I think it's bullshit, but someone put it down in their record. Crazy does not get better over time. The dumb ass husbands of these crazy fucking women look like hell and have a miserable life. But they're to blame for dating, marrying, and unfortunately having kids with them.
You need to man the fuck up. If not, you'll continue your foolish ways and learn the hard way. Perhaps that's what you need.
She is fked up obviously. The difference here is that she is from an eastern country, so there isn't any need to put "rape" in quotes.
That aside, she accepts she is fked up,but she is stable enough to hold down a steady job,is fiercely independent.
Anyhow i'm defending her again which was not my intention,let's just take it on faith that she is a good person ok? I would like it if you replied to the first part where you nailed the order i flowed in...