Personally I'd avoid having a prolonged discussion.
Mention her weight gain in a casual way to feed the hamster.
Squeeze her cheeks.
Call her Little Miss Piggy.
Make jokes about her beer belly.
When you eat out, ask her if she wants the extra large size of everything.
If she still doesn't get the hint then soft next her - just stop answering her communication for a while. She will catch on.
Mention her weight gain in a casual way to feed the hamster.
Squeeze her cheeks.
Call her Little Miss Piggy.
Make jokes about her beer belly.
When you eat out, ask her if she wants the extra large size of everything.
If she still doesn't get the hint then soft next her - just stop answering her communication for a while. She will catch on.
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