Quote: (10-18-2013 11:46 AM)Ternarydemonite Wrote:
Be careful when it happens t to you. A 35 year women i went out twice, constantly flaked saying she has multiple business and freelance appointments. I think, this time her excuses were mostly true. Even so, the two times I saw her, she was visibly tired and exhausted from work and lack of sleep. Not DTF material anyway.
I nexted her (or she nexted me?). There is no point on investing your time in people without the time for you. Unless you are very high value to her, she may think you are too busy and may quickly consider any of her other options.
I had a similar issue with a 26-year-old financial advisor just starting her own "practice" (or whatever they call it). She inherited a location from an outgoing older peer and had an incompetent secretary she had to keep on for a year. She must've spent 5 minutes bitching about the level of incompetency, it got to the point I tuned her out. By the end of the conversation we both knew it wasn't going to work out (I'm shocked she even tried dating) but I learned "business woman" is a potential red flag.