I think it depends on the dude. Some guys absolutely cannot make it here given their mental frame of mind and their raw ability to connect with American women. They either self-destruct because of that or they set their sights on landing a LTR with a foreigner.
Guys who are not in that situation and have some success here still feel the pull because the women here largely suck and who can blame a guy for trying his luck overseas for whatever their interests are. I put myself in this camp because although I have success with women here I still cannot deal with many of the women I meet.
But I will say this. It's probably better to try and find a girl here who is 1st or 2nd generation American with a good family upbringing. I've lived all over the U.S. and I think there are good girls here that have many of the values their families brought with them here and inculcated their daughters with. Obviously, some girls lose that and eat the bad pill. But there are good women here...it's just harder to find them. Some types of females I've met here which are really feminine are Mexican, Philippina, Polish, and Italian. But you can find shitstain women in those countries as well. To me it all comes down to the values the women chose to adopt and the strength of their nuclear family. In general, if you meet a girl who came from a really fucked up home environment, odds are she will be fucked up too.
Just my observation.
Guys who are not in that situation and have some success here still feel the pull because the women here largely suck and who can blame a guy for trying his luck overseas for whatever their interests are. I put myself in this camp because although I have success with women here I still cannot deal with many of the women I meet.
But I will say this. It's probably better to try and find a girl here who is 1st or 2nd generation American with a good family upbringing. I've lived all over the U.S. and I think there are good girls here that have many of the values their families brought with them here and inculcated their daughters with. Obviously, some girls lose that and eat the bad pill. But there are good women here...it's just harder to find them. Some types of females I've met here which are really feminine are Mexican, Philippina, Polish, and Italian. But you can find shitstain women in those countries as well. To me it all comes down to the values the women chose to adopt and the strength of their nuclear family. In general, if you meet a girl who came from a really fucked up home environment, odds are she will be fucked up too.
Just my observation.