Are you friends with her on FB or did you find her on there and send the message? Because if you're not already friends, chances are FB dropped your message into her "other" folder...or dropped her reply back to you into your "other" folder.
When you click on messages, there is another folder called other -- click on it and see what's in it. FB does this and charges you $1 to guarantee your message won't get dumped into that folder. Check it regularly.
That said, try to absorb the advice on here. FB game is by default beta game. The way FB works is that women play the Queen Attention Whore and men play the court jesters or fools, hoping for scraps of attention.
Technology often shapes social dynamics. I'm convinced that teen sex exploded in the '50s when they introduced private phones in teenagers' rooms (a new thing then). The power dynamic was in favor of men then, because men can easily seduce over the phone, one-on-one with just their voice.
But in an "open setting," like a high school cafeteria, it's not so easy. Facebook, sad to say, is a digital recreation of the high school lunch room. It's hard to get a woman's rapt attention when you've got other kids screaming and acting like idiots. Figure a way to isolate her a bit in person or get to know her in a real group setting. FB works best after you've established rapport, not while you're trying to.
When you click on messages, there is another folder called other -- click on it and see what's in it. FB does this and charges you $1 to guarantee your message won't get dumped into that folder. Check it regularly.
That said, try to absorb the advice on here. FB game is by default beta game. The way FB works is that women play the Queen Attention Whore and men play the court jesters or fools, hoping for scraps of attention.
Technology often shapes social dynamics. I'm convinced that teen sex exploded in the '50s when they introduced private phones in teenagers' rooms (a new thing then). The power dynamic was in favor of men then, because men can easily seduce over the phone, one-on-one with just their voice.
But in an "open setting," like a high school cafeteria, it's not so easy. Facebook, sad to say, is a digital recreation of the high school lunch room. It's hard to get a woman's rapt attention when you've got other kids screaming and acting like idiots. Figure a way to isolate her a bit in person or get to know her in a real group setting. FB works best after you've established rapport, not while you're trying to.