I'm a bit older than many guys here and keenly aware of the generation gap between me and the mid-20's women I game. 20's women are all about texting and all but done with voice calls, and that's fine with me *except* for when I meet women on-line. Ideally, I'd rather not agree to a date without a quick phone chat to verify that the woman's voice sounds at least somewhat feminine, though I will do it on a weeknight if the date is nearby. Recently, an early 20's woman contacted me online--looks great in her photos. She's a grad student in a nearby city and she wants me to go there to meet her on a Friday night. It's about a hour's drive and there's no way I'm going to commit a Friday night to her without a quick phone chat, but SHE WON'T DO IT! She's not a scammer, as I've found her image on her department's web site and her whole story matches up with what she's written me. So my question is, why won't this women call me, or pick up the phone when I call her? We'll be texting back-and-forth and at some point I'll simply write "call me" and she'll either ignore it or make up some lame excuse (e.g. she doesn't want to be distracted from studying). Can anyone here think of a reason that a normal girl would be so hesitant to talk on the phone with an older guy she wants to drive a good distance to visit her? Am I being an idiot for not just going down?
Tim
Tim