Quote: (09-25-2013 01:02 PM)philly22 Wrote:
Recently started seeing a girl who is about 5'7 and weighs 105lbs. I am disgusted by fat girls as much as anyone but this girl is a little too thin in my opinion. I saw pictures of her from a year ago when she weighed 120 and she looked a lot less boney and had much more legs and butt.
I would like to tell her to gain some weight and put on a little muscle at the gym. The problem is that she is a health nut- eats no meat, nothing with gluten. She eats tofu. This girl has a very very good face and a pretty friendly personality but my sexual attraction to her isn't that high due to lack of curves.
Anyone have experience with this and did the girl get offended when you asked her to gain weight?
It depends if it is genetics or mental problems.
Some women are naturally very skinny, they may still be functioning OK mentally and thus have a good sex drive and self image.
I went out with one girl who had a more or less perfect figure for my tastes, but she had an eating disorder.
It was pretty hopeless. We liked each other, but when I started trying to make out with her she said she couldn't enjoy it because of her "weight".
One thing to be aware of is that any girl who' really fit with no flab will be told she's too thin by jealous whales and girls at a "healthy weight" ( 15-20 lbs overweight) .
There are all degrees of eating disorders, the most extreme when someone is emaciated and sees themselves -- almost with the quality of a hallucination-- as overweight. then there are women who just really want to near perfect by a high fashion standard.
Jessica Alba the movie star for instance, said she had an eating disorder when she got her big break in Dark Angel. She won over 1000 other auditioners, probably 800 of whom were at least 10 lbs overweight.
I am biased, I like them really skinny, after a chick has a kid, gets married, she is going to put on at least 15....