[liveandlearn7]

I've done pretty well on OkCupid. Have an interesting profile that doesn't seem too generic and personal. Look at the way girls profiles always have sarcasm, jokes, ironic subject matter, and random shit. Do what they do. Put at least one picture up of you with hot girls for social proof. Have a picture of you doing something cool or something hilarious. And have at least one picture of how you look on a friday night or suited up. When messaging them, ask them something about their profile or say something stupid like "I believe in you..." which will puzzle them and get them to reply, to which you can then say something like "That you're as pretty in real life, and as intriguing as your profile leads me to believe." Hit at least 10 people up a day, and try to get it off OKC as soon as possible. The longer you chat without meeting the less of a chance a meeting will ever take place. If there is any resistance, say "it's hard to judge if ill like someone just by messaging them back and forth, I'd rather speak to you on the phone before pushing this any further and being disappointed...some people are vastly different from their online personas." Coffee dates and grabbing a few drinks at the bar are less threatening ways to get them to meet you. No dinner dates or anything.