I think dudes are taking their nights out dancing a little too seriously.
Every chick isn't going to connect with you on the floor, regardless of her skill level.
If I'm really not feeling the dance for any reason, I will stop in the middle of it, say "thank you", and move on.
If you're going to meetup type events/dance socials, I would make pick up the last thing on my mind. Most of these girls go to these events and they will literally dance with every guy there, which says to me, it's not about meeting someone to hook up with, especially that night.
For that, you're better off going to traditional dance clubs, but the number of girls you'll find at those that can not only dance, but also share your level of passion for it is damn near next to nil. I would say there, make it less about the dancing, especially since most chicks only give guys they actually find attractive the time of the day.
At the end of the day, all I care about is whether or not I'm having fun. If you take something like dance, something you've probably invested time and money on to learn, and turn it into being about getting ass, you're going to be disappointed more often than not.
Every chick isn't going to connect with you on the floor, regardless of her skill level.
If I'm really not feeling the dance for any reason, I will stop in the middle of it, say "thank you", and move on.
If you're going to meetup type events/dance socials, I would make pick up the last thing on my mind. Most of these girls go to these events and they will literally dance with every guy there, which says to me, it's not about meeting someone to hook up with, especially that night.
For that, you're better off going to traditional dance clubs, but the number of girls you'll find at those that can not only dance, but also share your level of passion for it is damn near next to nil. I would say there, make it less about the dancing, especially since most chicks only give guys they actually find attractive the time of the day.
At the end of the day, all I care about is whether or not I'm having fun. If you take something like dance, something you've probably invested time and money on to learn, and turn it into being about getting ass, you're going to be disappointed more often than not.