[MrXY]

(09-04-2013 03:59 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Oddly enough, this doesn't match my experience. Most eye-contact girls flat out reject me, many of them have been blowouts during my early game years.

I don't even bother with eye-contact because it means nothing in my world.

I think eye-contact is also misleading if you're a good looking guy. I hate to brag, but when I walk in a room lots of people turn heads and look at me. That doesn't mean they want to bang. They just like to look at you.

I get eyefucked a lot too and you're right about that, but I think the OP is onto something here

I've noticed there's two kinds of looks- what you might call the look of aesthetic appreciation, which is not an approach invitation, and the other type which used to be called the "come hither" look which is.

It doesn't necessarily have to do with how long they look at you or how frequently, but with the quality of the look, which is impossible to describe in words.

But to me eye contact is only one factor; I also look at her body language, her jewelry, especially her earrings, how many girls she's with and how she is interacting with them and how much she's drinking. If the other factors look good I'll approach in the absence of eye contact. A little while back a got a cold approach SNL from a girl I approached from behind who never even saw me but I identified her as being open to an SNL from other factors. A girl in a bachelorette party can stare at me all night and I'm not going to approach her